Do you know love is the answer, but can't seem to find it? Do you have a lot of arguments that leave you exhausted and hurt, but go nowhere? Do you miss the closeness you once shared with your partner and wish you had it back?
I would like to help your relationship become a sanctuary, where you each feel safe and nourished by your connection. I can help you gently create passageways back to one another through the softening of your hearts.
When the heart has become crusted over with pain, there is often distance and a sense of separation. I can help you two come back into your hearts, so you can experience the healing balm of compassion for yourselves and one another. This is the climate in which love can blossom.
We tend to pick partners that bring up our deepest wounds so we can heal them. This can backfire, and lead us to feel even more pain than we felt before coming into the relationship. Your mate has the potential to help you heal like no one else can because they have such deep access to your heart. I can teach you how to fulfill this potential and actually become each other's healer.
I have developed a method that combines the relationship expertise of psychotherapy with the ancient intuitive art of sound healing. I coach my clients in their communication skills, so they can talk about their difficult issues in a way that is healing. This can help my clients to stop arguing and truly hear one another. For more information about this, please see my website www.shirastone.com.
Then there are times when no matter how hard a couple works on communicating, the words just seem to get in the way. At those times, The Softening Heart uses the tones in the voice to cut through this barrier, so they can communicate heart to heart. I have often heard couples say "I didn't know you felt that way" after using this method, even though they had been arguing about this same issue for a long time.
I can guide you in making sounds that will bring you two into harmony. It is much easier to feel warmth and affection for one another when you are resonating in harmony. It is also easier to resolve conflicts and to communicate when both of your energy fields are synchronized.
The Softening Heart can help your relationship/marriage become more:
- Dynamic and Alive
- Close and Intimate
- Compassionate and Tender/span>
